Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear… All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty… To forgive, and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty, and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm’s way….
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I knew it was over when it wasn’t about being happy or unhappy. I just didn’t want to be me anymore… If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind. I think it was Oprah who said “Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could
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THANKFULLY we’ve broken up, but I will not be breaking down. If anything I’m correcting a mistake that was hurting me deeply for years! Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked herself up, regained her strength, and chosen freedom, and change… ••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
Already things are changing; it´s starting with small things but oh it´s starting, the change, the irrevocable, impossible change. Shift happens the moment you choose it in your mind. Everything can change in a heartbeat; it can slip away in an instant. Everything you trusted, everything you knew, or thought you knew about someone… Whatever you thought was comfort, and support may have come at terrible cost. Health is temporary; money disappears. Safety is nothing but a big illusion… So when the moment comes, and everything you depend upon changes, or perhaps someone you thought you loved disappears… Must disaster follow? Or will you somehow adapt?… I’m choosing to adapt… Choosing to think how I want to feel, and know that I’m already exactly where I need to be on this journey back to WHOLE… Back to the independent me, free from his constant control, and manipulation. I am free, and on the path to me again. Finally me. Just me! #EmpoweredWoman
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